Listen to Understand, Not to Be Understood

The biggest mistake that I made in my life coming from inexperience was that I was listening to get my point across instead of listening to understand. We all have been guilty of doing that in our lives.

Every individual likes to always talk about themselves. It’s only human nature. According the book “Millionaire Success Habits” by Dean Graziosi, Graziosi discussed how relationships and business fails because of the inability to understand others because individuals are more caught up in being understood.


Proverbs 2:5

Then you will understand what is right and just and fair– every good path..

This very moment forward. I seek to understand more than I seek to be understood.


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When Doors Don’t Open, Create Your Own Door

I’ve had a lot of doors close in my life.

Some doors closed right in my face.

At times, the doors closed; because, I never had the key to open it.

Other times, the door wasn’t for me to open in the first place.

Whether it’s in our careers, relationships, or all aspects of life, we’ve all had doors slam in our face. If not, then the person is either lying or has never been through the depths of adversity.

Some knock on the same doors for years and the door never opens, while others knock on the same doors and the doors opens within minutes.

The most common responses are the following:

That door wasn’t for me…

There’s new door specifically for me

You wait and wait and wait and wait and wait… Patiently

Door never opens…

You take Action and sometimes force the issue..

Door never opens..

Years go by. You go through door after door after door after door…

Door never opens...

Then, you ask yourself.

What if I’m not supposed to open doors?

What if I’m supposed to create the doors so others can open them for me?

Access Granted..

Create Your Own Door


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  You’re only as good as your Word. If there’s no Follow-Through or Alignment with what you’re saying or doing, your words will have no Merit. No one will believe the words that are coming out of your mouth, even if you appear to be legitimate. At times, I struggled with this because I would […]

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Understanding the Process

At times, I would give up on areas of my life easily because the results didn’t match the input that I was putting in. You always hear that the most gratifying things that come in life comes from being patient and going through the process. For example, a college student going to a university for […]

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